today I wanna talk about the people that is around us.. this is because have we ever think that the people around us is a strong influence on what we are as a person?? to me they play a great role in motivating us and giving us support in everything we do.. there is a lot of people around us that sometimes channel some negative influence to us beside the positive one... so, today i wanna talk about the positiveness and negativeness that is around us..
as we know the positiveness around us may encourage in doing what we want to in live.. they are our source of power and energy that helps us through the day.. but what if some people around us channel negativeness to us.. what do we feel.. to me we just cant please everybody in following us what we want to pursue in life.. in life as u know there will always have some people who agree in the things we do and some of them doesn't agree it.. but the things that largely demotivates us when we see our close friends and family does not agree what we want to do.. its ok if they do not agree in what we do... the part that demotivates us the most is when they condemn what we believe in and the things that we want to obtain...

for my advise to those who always feel sad if they have an argument in what the things we do with our life is dont take it personally... this is because, try to think.. will the person that has different opinion with you, show you the right way in living your life.. if they do, does the things that they tell u is 100% correct... maybe sometimes the people who have different views with us are the people who are close to us or have more experience in life... but what does that mean actually... for me when people disagree or u have diff views, they're just sounding out their concern.. thats a good thing right?? for me, just take their advise but, if u think what ur chasing for is worthwhile.. just do it, because we cant fail in anything if we keep on trying our very best until we achieve it..

same comes in HERBALIFE... for me, I can see a clear future what that i want to obtain in 5, 10 years from now.. its about my future.. i will not sacrifice my future for some people opinion on what i believe in.. i say this is because when i join Herbalife and till now, many people that is around me have different views on what i want to achieve in life.. for me, i dont want to life in an ordinary life, where i work as an ordinary work, where my working hours are ordinary, what i do is ordinary, my daily routine is ordinary... tell me, what do u feel when u read "ordinary"?? to me it sounds BORINGGGGGGGG...... right?
I want to live in an extraordinary life, where there is a way that can lead me to my dreams and what i want to achieve in life... so, dont let these other views blind u towards ur success..
Mark Hughes once said "your SUCCESS where you go in life is only limited to your own IMAGINATION and your own HARD WORK"
what does this tells us... it says no matter what other people view of us or how they treat us.. the success where we want to go, what we want to achieve, what we want to do with our life is only achievable through the dreams that we have.. dreams that we so badly want.. and the hard work that we put, the effort that we put in achieving what we want in life...
through this journey, there will be challenges of change.. it will start to show up when we started realizing that we want to change from our ordinary life into someone better in life... There will be challenges that will keep us sidetrack from changing .. this happens because the challenges does not want us to change...
Some of these challenges include the people around us, maybe for some people around us they will not like our change in becoming someone better which will lead them to treat us differently.. they will sometimes treat us as if we had never known each other in life... because people does not like changes..
My advise to those who feel this is, BE STRONG...you are fighting for your FUTURE... we must show that things like this will not stray us in becoming what we want to be... even though some people treat us like crap.. they will not know what we are going through until there are at our place.. another advise is to channel all this negative energy or assumption into positiveness..if the people around us really do care about us, or our friends are really our friends... they will understand on what we want to do.. the only thing that you must do when ur really frustrated with all the negativeness from the people around us is that, you must comfort them and tell them what you feel... they will listen to what we have to say if they are truly your friends, but if they still dont feel or see what we want to do.. leave them to be..
try to be patient of where you currently stand right now.. maybe in the future to come they will realize what they had done to you and they will be sorry.. just be positive
Remember this, if the people around us want to be part of our life, they will make an effort to be in our life.. if they dont why waste the effort in hoping they will be?
this is the other thing, if we fail in what we do or the plan that we had mapped out doesn't seem to go as plan.. just keep on trying...when u are afraid of failure or what other people thinks about u, u have already fail.. just keep on trying until u achieve if or in other words become successful... because if you keep on, keep on, keep on trying... think of it, will you at the end eventually get it.?? the key is never give up, and try it over and over and over again...
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Alright, i think thats all for this post.. actually this post is to motivate one of my downline.. just cheer up k.. Smile and be Happy... you are simply the best when your happy and smile a lot.... :)
Till next time... c ya... and take care guys... :)
















































